Sunday, March 11, 2018

The Most Astonishing Promise

What a fascinating passage of scripture (John 16:16-33). But if you -- like me -- find some things about this passage to be puzzling, isn’t it comforting to notice that the disciples also appear to be confused? In verse 17, they say to each other, “What does he mean?” (that is, “What does Jesus mean?”) And in verse 18, after repeating that same question, they say quite explicitly, “We don’t understand what he is saying.

Isn’t it great that the gospel writers aren’t at all shy about acknowledging when the disciples were out of sync with Jesus? Of course, the good news is that in spite of their inability to grasp what Jesus is saying, Jesus didn’t give up on them. So whenever we struggle to understand something Jesus is saying to us, whenever we struggle to be in harmony with him, we can be assured that he is not about to give up on us, either….

But isn’t it also interesting to notice that the things that confuse Jesus’ disciples aren’t the same things that puzzle us? In verse 18, the disciples ask about this “little while” business. But when Jesus says, “in a little while you will no longer see me,” we now know that he could well have been speaking about his approaching crucifixion and death -- it is, after all, something that he predicted at least three times. And then when he adds, “and then after a little while you will see me”? Well, we now know that Jesus would also rise from the dead in great victory. And so we aren’t as puzzled today as the disciples were when Jesus said these words. Having the death and resurrection in mind also helps us understand verses 20-22:

20 Very truly I tell you, you will weep and mourn while the world rejoices. You will grieve, but your grief will turn to joy. 21 A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world. 22 So with you: Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy.

Can you imagine being one of those disciples between Jesus death on Good Friday and his resurrection Easter Sunday morning? When their leader and friend was executed they very likely did “weep and mourn” (as Jesus predicted). It would have appeared to them that they had made a failed investment -- that they had “bet on the wrong horse”.

Now that’s a terrible feeling, isn’t it? You take a chance on someone or something, and it fails, or -- even worse -- they fail you. And the more time or money or energy you invested, the more it hurts. The disciples left everything to follow Jesus. They had spent three years of their lives dedicated to him. So you can imagine the disciples’ emotional turmoil during that longest and darkest of Saturdays. But you can also imagine their exceeding joy the following day -- when the reality of Jesus’ victory over death began to sink in. But here, in our text this morning, we aren’t there yet. Neither the death or resurrection of Jesus has happened. It is only with the benefit of hindsight that we can appreciate what seems to have confused the disciples.

But now we come to the most difficult portion of our text -- at least for us (there is no indication that it was a concern for the disciples). Before we read it, I’d like to give you a “heads-up:” We will be reading Jesus’ promise to his disciples -- his promise to us, and one of the most significant promises in the Bible! But in order to understand it better, it could help to consider an important question: that is, what is the purpose of a promise?

If your child is participating in a play at school, and you promise her that you will leave work early in order to attend, well, there isn’t just one purpose of such a promise. First, there is the immediate purpose -- that is, attending her play. If you were to ask her, “why did your Daddy promise to leave work early?” She might reply, “so he could see me!” And she would be right. But there can also be an ultimate purpose. If someone asked you, “why did you promise to leave work early?” you might reply, “to build a relationship with my daughter!” And you would also be right, naturally.

The Bible is full of promises. And while we might understandably be inclined to focus on the immediate purpose of those promises (being human as we are), scripture make it clear that there are also ultimate purposes, including nothing less that re-making us in the image of our Lord and Savior -- grafting us into the True Vine that Real spoke about last week, enabling us to abide with him, and he with us. As Peter writes (2 Peter 1:4):

he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire.

So now, as we turn to Jesus’ amazing promise to us, let’s not focus entirely on the immediate purpose, or we could easily lose sight of the ultimate purpose.

23 In that day you will no longer ask me anything. Very truly I tell you, my Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. 24 Until now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete.

Now to us, hearing these words almost two thousand years later, they sure sound like Jesus is writing a blank cheque for us, don’t they? “My Father will give you whatever you ask…” But I’m sure that I’m not the only one here who has prayed earnestly, prayed fervently, prayed committedly, prayed faithfully, without receiving the thing that was prayed for. So how do we deal with that? For starters, we must not get hung up on the immediate purpose of this promise -- that is, receiving whatever we ask for. We will only begin to begin to appreciate this promise if we also consider its ultimate purpose.

There is, after all, a whole lot riding on this promise. Because there is nothing like a broken promise to rip your heart out; nothing like a broken promise to make other promises seem worthless. After all, if we can’t take this promise seriously, how can we take Jesus’ other promises seriously? When Jesus says:

And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.

And when Jesus says,

Let not your heart be troubled; …. I go to prepare a place for you.

We must be able to trust him, and so we must also be willing to wrestle with -- perhaps understand -- this promise. But more importantly, we need to experience it.

The problem, of course, is that this promise sometimes doesn’t seem to stand up to the tragedies we face in life. Those heartbreaking prayer requests -- asking for the health of someone we love -- or perhaps even more heartbreaking -- asking for the salvation of someone we love -- they all too often go unfulfilled.

And it won’t do to say that “well, God answered those prayers… he just chose to answer with a ‘no’.” Have you ever heard that? Except that Jesus doesn’t just promise that the Father will just hear, or even respond. No: he says: “my Father will give you whatever you ask in my name.” And to lay it on even thicker, Jesus doesn’t just give this promise once. We see it at least four times in the gospel of John alone. In chapter 14, we read:

13 And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. 14 If you ask anything in My name, I will do it.

And in chapter 15, we read:

7 If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. 8 By this my Father is glorified

And later:

16 You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit, and that your fruit should remain, that whatever you ask the Father in My name He may give you. 17 These things I command you, so that you will love one another.

And the same promise appears twice in the gospel of Matthew (7:7, 21:22), once in the gospel of Mark (11:24), once in the gospel of Luke (11:9) as well as in the first letter of John (5:14,15). This is some serious business. We can’t just brush it off. It even appears that Jesus is insisting that we take him seriously here -- that is, he is encouraging us to make a point of regularly coming to him with our requests! Here is verse 24 again:

Until now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete.

At this point, let’s agree that these nine passages are really nine different expressions of the same promise. Let’s also notice that there are two types of details in some or all of these passages. On the one hand, there are some we could call the “gate” for this promise, and on the other hand, those we could call the “goal” for this promise. These are the bookends, and between the gate and the goal is where the game is played.

Suppose you participate in a long distance run like the Boston Marathon. Going in, you’re told that successful participants will receive a certificate indicating their completion of that prestigious endeavor. But a few kilometers before the finish line, you spy Rosie Ruiz ahead of you. She was the runner who, in 1980, “won” the race, only to be stripped of the honor when it was found that she didn’t start with the rest of the runners. She didn’t enter through the “gate”, so she couldn’t claim the prize. Similarly, if a runner lost his way, and even ran the full distance in record time without crossing the finish line, you’d feel very sorry for him, but you wouldn’t give him the prize, either. He didn’t achieve the “goal”. Between the gates and the goal is where the game is played.

In the slide, I’ve colored the text. In green, you see the promise itself. In yellow, what we could call the “gate”, and in red what we could call the “goal”.

In our text (at the top) in order to receive what we ask, the “gate” is that the asking be done “in Jesus name.” (as it is in John 14 and John 15:16) In Matthew and in Mark, the gate is to ask “in faith.” In 1 John, the gate is to ask “according to God’s will.” In John 15:7, the gate is to be “abiding in the True Vine (that is, in Jesus, himself).” But “operating in Jesus name” just is “abiding in Jesus” which just is “being aligned with the Father’s will” which just is “living by faith in Him”. As Tom Short says, “Our faith activates the promises of God and makes them real for us.” Those of the nine passages that have an explicit “gate” are simply different expressions of the same “gate”.

But this “in my name” business needs a bit more attention, especially given the common Christian practice to simply tack on “in Jesus name” to the end of our prayers. There is nothing wrong about doing that, of course. It usually expresses our intention to pray in Jesus’ name. But to express an intention and to actually pray in Jesus’ name are two quite different things. After all, Jesus makes it clear that it doesn’t matter if we imagine that we are acting in his name; it only matters if he considers what we do to be in his name. In the sermon on the mount, Jesus tells the crowd (Matthew 7):

21 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ 23 And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’

Jesus isn’t buying it when these people think that they have done so much “in his name.” Instead, his reply is the scariest sequence of words in all of scripture: “I never knew you,” he says. Knowing him is important. Knowing him is critical. Clearly, we can’t enter the Kingdom without knowing him. But at the same time, it is also those that do the Father’s will who will enter the Kingdom. Once again: doing God’s will and knowing Jesus and operating in his name are aspects of one and the same thing.

When Jesus taught his disciples to pray, how did it go? After “our Father”, we are to pray, “Hallowed be your name.” That is, before we go any further, we must recognize the respect that is due to his name. We don’t treat it as a light thing. Instead, becoming a representative of his name is the goal of a lifetime. After that comes: “Your Kingdom come; your will be done -- on Earth (i.e., in my life) as it is in heaven.” That is, we can only begin to learn to pray if we start with acknowledging his purposes, and his goals. We need our heart’s desire to be in harmony and alignment with the Almighty.

But to really appreciate this “in my name” idea, let me remind you of one of its few modern applications. Suppose you are heading down the highway, without paying attention to how fast you are going, and a policeman pulls you over for speeding. He has stopped you “in the name of the law.” It means, among other things, that the policeman is representing the law. In the same way, when we do something in the name of Jesus, we are representing him. But just as the policeman needs training in his profession, needs qualification as the law’s representative, and needs to be well-versed in the law before acting in its name, we, too, need to get to know Jesus before we can legitimately claim to be doing anything in his name. As we said: knowing him is critical.

“In Jesus’ name” is not just something we tack on at the periphery of the Christian life. Rather, it represents something fundamentally pivotal in our Christian experience. In testimony to this fact, the expressions “in the name of Jesus”, “in Jesus”, “in Jesus’ name” and “in Christ” appear over one hundred times in the New Testament, where we also read:

And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus (Colossians 3:17)

So that’s the “gate”: if we are willing to get to know Jesus so deeply that we can represent him to the lost world around us -- because that’s what it means to operate “in his name” -- then we will fulfill the requirements for the promise.

But what about the “goal?” Here, we consider the ultimate purpose of Jesus’ promise. In our text, Jesus says that the goal is to make “our joy complete.” That sounds wonderful, doesn’t it? But how about those other passages? In John 14 and 15:7, the goal of the promise is to glorify the Father. In John 15:16, the goal is to have us bear much fruit and to love one another. As the Sunday School memorably reminded us a few weeks ago, “love” and “joy” are the first two of the fruit of the spirit. In John 15:8, Jesus indicates that our demonstrating this fruit is the truest manner by which we glorify the Father:

By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit.

So, once again, when these passage include a “goal” they are just different expressions of the same goal. When we come to God with our requests, if our purpose is in harmony with the purpose of the promise, then the promise is ours. As Samuel Gordon writes in Quiet talks on prayer “The roots of prayer lie in oneness of purpose” -- our purpose must become more aligned with His purpose.

But even with all that I’ve said this morning, there is an uncomfortable reality in this promise that can’t be avoided. That is, no matter how many times our prayers have been answered, when the time comes that we ask and we don’t receive, then it implies that we simply weren’t in harmony with Jesus in the first place. Either we missed the gate or we missed the goal. “But I tried!” our heart cried out. “I did all I could,” we say to ourselves. It sometimes feels like Jesus must have been setting us up for heartbreak. What more can we do to be in harmony with him? Now that’s the right question to ask!

But in response, let me remind you that our text began with the disciples struggling with Jesus words -- they weren’t in harmony with him at the time. And Jesus gave them this promise in the context of their disharmony. Confusion on the part of the disciples is also part of the context of the same promise in chapter 14. I don’t think that is a coincidence.

Let me suggest that our attempts to ask in Jesus name are the best possible remedy for being out of harmony with him. That is, Jesus knows that our asking, expecting and hoping to have our requests answered is actually an effective means of getting to know him better and beginning to abide in him more!

This is how it works: whenever we know an important rule in principle, but are unsure about how that rule applies in practice, what do we do? We give it a try. When it doesn’t appear that the rule “worked”, it simply means that we either missed the gate or missed the goal. It isn’t fun when that happens, but we don’t give up. After all, Jesus tells us that there is great joy and great reward in discovering exactly how this rule “works”. So we must not give up. Will it mean developing patience? Certainly (that’s the fourth fruit of the Spirit, incidentally). Will it mean some heartbreak? Certainly. If we are in harmony with Jesus, our hearts will break at the suffering in the world, even as his does. But will it be worth it in the end? Absolutely.

In Luke 18, Jesus “told [his disciples] a parable to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart.” Jesus knows that there is nothing able to align our hearts with God more -- nothing that brings our hearts into harmony with him more -- than coming to Him again and again with our requests, carefully paying particular attention to the requests that are granted, and adjusting ourselves accordingly. As Andrew Murray wrote: "All this must be learned. It can only be learned in the school of much prayer, for practice makes perfect."
How does Paul put it?

in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. (Phil 4:6,7)

God knows that our hearts can be slowly brought in harmony with his Son Jesus if we follow this advice: in everything let your requests be made known to God. If you, like the disciples, still aren’t sure, why not start small -- start with the basics. Start with requests that scripture indicates are in God’s will; start with requests that scripture indicates are “in his name”. What would those things be? In 1 Thess 5, we read:

Rejoice always and pray without ceasing and give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.

Have you ever prayed that God would help you to learn to pray? Have you ever prayed that God would help you be thankful? Have you ever prayed for access to the joy of the Spirit? Those are great places to start. But this morning we’ve encountered a number of other things that God clearly wants for us. Have you ever prayed to be more securely established in Jesus? Have you ever prayed to be living according to his will? Have you ever prayed for more of the fruit of the Spirit in your life? How about for more of the Holy Spirit in your life?

If we remain faithful in those prayers, we will first begin to experience the ultimate purpose of this promise. And then (and only then) will we experience its immediate purpose, that is -- receiving whatever we ask for in his name.

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